There’s something unmistakably special about the energy of a full house during the holidays. Maybe the turkey's in the oven, kids are chasing the dog through the yard, and a favorite uncle is telling stories that get everyone laughing. When you’ve got multiple generations, visiting relatives, and one joyful bit of barely-contained chaos, it might feel like planning a photoshoot is just too much. But I promise, with a bit of preparation and the right approach, these are the sessions that yield some of the most heartfelt and lasting images.

As a family and pet photographer based in the Texas Hill Country, I've been lucky enough to witness these beautiful family gatherings through my lens over the years. The real beauty isn’t just in getting everyone to smile at the same time (although, yes, I do try!) - it's in the subtle connections, the quick laughs, and the presence of those we don’t get to see often.

Spoiler alert: Yes, pets are always welcome too. They’re part of your story.

Making Space for What Matters

Let’s be honest, coordinating a session when Aunt Joy is visiting from three states away, the teens are glued to their phones, and Buddy the Labrador just dug up the backyard isn’t always smooth. But you don’t need “perfect.” You just need “present.”

The key? Creating a space where everyone feels comfortable being themselves, even when the group is large or a little chaotic. I find it helps to photograph in a location that everyone’s familiar with when possible - whether that’s your own backyard or my property just outside Mason, with wide open spaces, warm central Texas grasses, and a studio close by for settling in.

Before the first shutter click, I work with families to think about the unique mix of personalities showing up and how we can reflect your people as they truly are. Every relative has a role in your story, and I love helping you honor that - candidly, gently, and with a little humor along the way.

Tips for Photographing With Extended Family During the Holidays

Here’s how we make large family sessions feel genuine, flexible, and low-stress - especially during the holidays.

Know the Setting Before You Start

• Planning ahead makes a difference. I often visit clients’ homes in advance so I’m familiar with the layout, light, and natural backdrops.
• If the session is at my place, families can roam freely on outdoor acreage and also use the studio if someone needs a quiet moment or a wardrobe adjustment.

Choose a location that feels cozy and familiar, especially for young children and older family members.

Keep Everyone Comfortable With Thoughtful Prep

• Coordinating outfits can get overwhelming fast. Stick to complementary colors and let people dress for comfort within a shared tone.
• Pets should be fed, walked, and given time to settle in before the fun starts. Kids too - snacks, naps, or just a quiet moment can do wonders.
• Think layers! Light jackets, shawls, or blankets allow quick changes without the fuss.

When everyone feels good in what they’re wearing (and no one’s hungry), you’ve already won half the battle.

Focus on Smaller Groupings Too

• Don’t try to nail one giant group shot and call it a day. Smaller duos and trios - Grandma with the kids, cousins together, siblings reunited - often yield the most meaningful photographs.
• Build moments around natural interactions like walks, tickles, or petting the dog. These un-staged snippets become your favorite frames.

I always schedule time for these in-between glances and unexpected giggles that say so much more than stiff poses ever could.

Be Flexible and Go With the Flow

• Embrace the moment. If someone’s a little late or the dog decides it’s actually play time, we adapt.
• I work with all kinds of personalities (including the growly ones) and use gentle humor to help everyone settle.

That big smile from Grandpa or the little hand gripping their pup’s ear? Those only happen when people feel seen, not forced.

Why These Photos Matter So Much

When the holidays are over and the guest bedrooms empty out, it’s the little things we hold onto - the way your dad smiled when the grand kids swarmed him, or how your sister's dog butted into every shot like he owned the place. These portraits aren’t just pictures. They’re reminders of a moment when your family was together in all its messy, lovable glory.

And when we print them, frame them, and walk past them through the year, you’re not just decorating your walls. You’re honoring connection, roots, and belonging.

Ready to Capture Your People (Pets and All)?

If you’ve got family visiting this season, let’s talk about weaving them into your next session in a meaningful way. We’ll keep it relaxed, grounded, and true to your story. I’ll guide you through the clothing choices, help the dog feel like a star, and make sure everyone has a reason to smile - even the ones who claim they “don’t do photos.”

You can learn more or schedule your session at www.suzannedemareephotographer.com.

Whether it’s a quick candid with cousins or a full multi-generational portrait under the Mason oak trees, I promise it’s worth it.

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Here’s to capturing the chaos, the joy, and the connection that makes your holiday story one to remember.